Differences Between a Father and a Religious Leader
Rev. Mel D. Davis
Canadian Coalition of Apostles
March 16, 2006
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| Father |
Religious Leader |
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| Welcomes intimacy (into me see) |
Stays aloof-distant |
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| In difficulty stands with you |
Forsakes, criticizes and saves his ministry |
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| Teaches you to trust yourself |
Controls and overlords |
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| Enjoys the successes and overtaking of their sons |
Feels bypassed – losing control |
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| Want to help you demanding nothing in return |
Wants to be supported |
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| Brings you up and teaches you to be a Father |
Wants you to trust solely in him |
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| Knows not everyone can be a son |
Wants a large whatever |
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| Gives up his own life to save and protect |
Saves himself on the basis of saving the ministry |
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| A father imparts Rom 1:11 |
Operates in gifts and displays his powers to confirm he’s the head, etc. |
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| Authority comes from own discipline |
Puts discipline on the sons |
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| Has learned to marry mercy with truth Jn 4 |
Doesn’t know the difference |
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| Additional readings -
1 Corintians 4:15
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Psalm 127:5 |
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| RESPONSIBILITIES TO COLLEAGUES & OPEN BIBLE LEADERSHIP |
- I will treat all ministerial colleagues, including predecessors with respect in my words and actions.
- I will work in co-operation with Open Bible leaders and ministers and will resolve conflicts in order to maintain a spirit of unity.
- I will, upon becoming aware of the serious misconduct of an Open Bible minister, contact the district or regional superintendent.
- I will contact the Senior Pastor of a church prior to contacting one of his/her staff or members concerning ministry opportunities.
- I will not start or locate a new church or relocate an existing church without first receiving written consent from the district and regional superintendent.
- I will not accept an independent pastorate in a city where an Open Bible church exists without first informing the district and regional superintendent.
- I will not approach or consider an offer from a church whose pastor has not officially resigned.
- I will, upon leaving a church, cease attending, unless invited by the incoming Senior Pastor and church board.
- I will, upon leaving a church, provide ministry to persons in the church only with the consent of the Senior Pastor, and I will not exert influence or undermine the leadership of the church.
- I will treat ministry guests with courtesy, providing adequately for their needs, and I will not invite persons to minister in the church who are under discipline, have questionable character, or have fundamental, doctrinal differences.
- I will not attempt to unduly influence people to leave other churches.
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